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ok so there's this guy i know who i was friends with and he's kind of sensitive and his feelings r hurt easily. so he asked me out and i really didnt want to say yes b-cuz i dont like him like that but i didnt want to say no either b-cuz it would hurt his feelings, in the end i said no...he was depressed for like 2 weeks and ignored EVERYONE...now he's pretty much over it but our friendship isnt the same as it used to be, but im getting off sucject, anyways i was wondering what to do in a situation like that in the future...anyone?
Jesusrokz September 08, 2008 @ 04:27 PM
maddie ur not allowed to answer this question!!!!!!
Jesusrokz September 08, 2008 @ 04:30 PM
about your question maddie: yes.......stop laughing....
Kylie_jean September 08, 2008 @ 09:10 PM
Say no, don't lead him on. Wait to date till your out of high school and ready to get married. There really isn't a point... you'll have two options when your dating... #1: Marry Him #2: Brake Up. I don't know about you, but I'm not ready to get married and nobody wants to go through the heart break and embarrassment of a break up.
-KJ
Peace_love_tobymac September 10, 2008 @ 07:32 AM
good advice.. BC.... *LINGOL* that was FUNNY!!!
Dancnfool September 10, 2008 @ 08:15 AM
@Kylie_jean Goodness I would love to meet you. Totally a girl I can agree with. Stick with it.
@Jesusrokz I completely agree with Kylie_jean. She is right...you have two options. Unless you are of an age to marry there is no reason for you to be dating and in the case that you have mentioned you did the right thing. You were honest. Hopefully you told him that you didn't have the feelings for him or even better you told him that you aren't dating. Either way you would have hurt him more to go through the motions of liking him and then breaking up with him later.
Jesusrokz September 12, 2008 @ 12:22 PM
thanks! yes i did tell him that i just wasnt ready or old enough to date and that i just wanted to be friends! btw im going to delete this topic because i got the advice i needed....thank u!!!
Peace_love_tobymac September 08, 2008 @ 03:05 PM
R U TALKING ABOUT COLIN?????