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some days i think the guy might like me and other days i'm like no way he must hate me. he can be really mean to me sometimes, but i still like him anyway. he says the sweetest things, but he can also break my heart.
my friends have been telling me that he's not good for me (they suspect he likes me) but he means the world to me and i don't know whether i should stick it out when he gets mad (he has a bad temper) or just stop trying and save myself a lot of heartache..
i'd endure any amount of abuse if i could just make him happy.
Drummergirl_xd August 24, 2008 @ 05:47 PM
ohh i'm sorry 
i hope things work out for you.
Jesus_rocks777 August 24, 2008 @ 06:47 PM
if its hurtin u, u dont need 2 try and stick it out. u need 2 save urself the heartache, and maybe if its right later and he cools his temper then maybe u guys can talk again. and if he doesnt cool it, then God prob has some1 better 4 u.
u dont need 2 take any abuse wat so ever. its just not right 4 a guy 2 treat a girl like that!
Stuck_on_christ August 24, 2008 @ 08:24 PM
Ok Doog first off im sorry this is happining to you for real for real and Drummergirl Listen as a guy my self there is no reason why a guy should be treating you like that you do not need the stress what you need is a man that will treat you like you are the only person on the face of the earth you need somone that will worship the ground you walk on and be there for you no matter what the problem may be not someone that will snap at you because somthing hes having a problem with and he has no one else to take it out on you need somone that will not play head games with you because that will be a problem in the long run may not be at first but trust me will later. I treat my wife with the ut most respect she is a virtious woman and our relationship is out of this world i wake up every morning and tell myself im going to love this woman no matter what. Yeah we have bad times but love is stronger than bad times and if you have a passionate love for your mate nothing will ever get in your way ok enough rambleing on im starting to sound like a GIRL sorry ladies
Drummergirl_xd August 26, 2008 @ 03:34 AM
haha no apology needed, it was good advice. thanks!! 
Stuck_on_christ August 29, 2008 @ 10:30 PM
So Hows everything working out DrummerGirl
One-in-a-million August 29, 2008 @ 11:36 PM
yeah take my advice: i used to be in luv with a guy like that but i got tired of it. i listened to the supechick song bowling ball and it was a real eye opener. u don't need him. i learned that the hard way.
Drummergirl_xd August 30, 2008 @ 10:40 AM
Bowling ball? i'll have to check it out thanks :]
Peace_love_tobymac August 31, 2008 @ 05:59 PM
HEY PEEPS.. okay ive been hanging out with this guy for a while now and i think he likes me me but im not sure.. any suggestions on how to ask???
Jesus_rocks777 August 31, 2008 @ 07:26 PM
just ask him straight out. but it depends on who he is, most guys wouldnt mind u just askin them straight out.
One-in-a-million September 01, 2008 @ 06:50 PM
ask him somewhere where he won't be uncomfortable like email or text. i found it's easier for both me AND guys to be honest and open that way. also don't pressure him.
Jesus_rocks777 September 01, 2008 @ 09:22 PM
its true, i do think i open up a lot easier and more over txt and e-mail and stuff like that. even talklin on the phone is still not as easy.
Peace_love_tobymac September 02, 2008 @ 06:40 AM
okay.. tanks!! ill try.. mabe.. im a nervous FREAK!!! but oh well.. ill throw it out!
Peace_love_tobymac September 02, 2008 @ 06:40 AM
okay.. tanks!! ill try.. mabe.. im a nervous FREAK!!! but oh well.. ill throw it out!
Jesus_rocks777 September 06, 2008 @ 02:20 PM
so plt and drummergirl, wats new? ant updates?
Doog2013 September 06, 2008 @ 03:36 PM
yeah, havent heard much from ya'll l8ly
Peace_love_tobymac September 07, 2008 @ 06:44 PM
nope... well umm theres that.. ohh no thats my life.. nvr mind!! lol... umm im thinking about starting a website,, but thats prettymuch it boardom!!
Drummergirl_xd September 07, 2008 @ 07:59 PM
uhhm well i havent really been able to take your advice, as good as it was... i know he has anger issues, but i can't help it, i want to help him because i know it hurts him too when he loses his temper.
i think it's selfish of me to consider my pain above his, i guess.
we're still just friends and all but i care about him in a different way than he cares about me, i think..
he's just very blunt, sometimes - maybe it's something i just need to get used to.
Doog2013 August 24, 2008 @ 12:53 PM
i am kinda going through somethin like that,as Jay and James and every1 else here know